John “Jay” T. Alexander

Memorial Mass for John “Jay” Thorndike Alexander, 78, Lawrence, will be held at 10:00 a.m. Saturday, December 15, 2018 at Corpus Christi Catholic Church. He died December 6, 2018 at Lawrence Memorial Hospital. Inurnment will be at Pioneer Cemetery.

Jay was born on January 18, 1940 in Cooperstown, New York, the son of Edward Porter and Alice (Bolton) Alexander. From age 6 through high school, Jay’s family lived in Williamsburg, Virginia, but Jay loved returning to the Cooperstown area to attend Hyde Bay Camp for Boys on Otsego Lake over six summers. One of his proudest childhood memories was written up in the local newspaper on August 11, 1955, when “Jay made history on Doubleday Field yesterday when he pitched his Hyde Bay Camp team to victory in a wonderful no-hit performance.” This may have spurred Jay’s lifelong interest in all sports statistics and trivia.

Jay graduated in 1961 from Wesleyan University (Connecticut). He earned his PhD in Russian history from Indiana University in 1966, and married Maria Kovalak Hreha on June 13, 1964 in Bloomington, Indiana. Even after 54 years of marriage, Jay spoke with a twinkle in his eye about how lucky he was to win Maria’s heart. Jay and Maria met at IU where both participated in the Russian club. They “honeymooned” in the Soviet Union for a year while Jay was doing research for his dissertation. Six years later, they returned to the Soviet Union for eight months with their two young children. After that, Jay made several shorter trips to the Soviet Union.

Jay taught Russian history at the University of Kansas from 1966-2005. He was an internationally recognized scholar specializing in 18th century Russia. His professional achievements are too numerous to mention, as evidenced by his 24 page-long curriculum vitae! Jay was the author of four original books, his favorite of which was Bubonic Plague in Early Modern Russia. His book Catherine the Great: Life and Legend (Oxford University Press, 1989) was the most widely read, winner of the Byron Caldwell Smith Award in 1989 for the best book by a Kansas author, main selection with the History Book Club 1988-89, alternate for the Book of the Month Club and Book Club Associates (Britain). It was reproduced by Easton Press in 1994 and by The Folio Society (London) in 1999. Two of Jay’s books were translated into Russian. He also translated three books from Russian into English and wrote numerous articles and book reviews. He was highly respected as a reviewer for being thorough, honest and professional. He presented at many conferences in the US and overseas, served on many departmental and university committees, and was a member of several professional organizations, domestic and international. Jay was honored to receive the Higuchi Research Achievement Award in 1992 and the Southern Conference on Slavic Studies Senior Scholar Award in 2001. He received awards and honors from many organizations, for example the National Library of Medicine and the American Philosophical Society. Jay was a featured scholar in “Russia: Land of the Tsars,” a documentary on the History Channel. He was always surprised when strangers would ask him, “Didn’t I see you on TV?”

Outside of his professional activities, Jay was involved at Corpus Christi Catholic Church, serving as a lector and usher. He enjoyed sailing, playing squash and tennis, and was an excellent swimmer and diver. He loved reading various genres, both fiction and non-fiction. Jay had an appreciation for Russian poetry, an interest he shared with Maria from their courting days. In retirement, Jay was an enthusiastic member of the Endacott Society, where he found many supportive friends, for which his family is very grateful. He was a modest man who did not hold grudges and who genuinely rejoiced at the good fortune of others.

Jay is survived by his wife Maria and son Michal Alexander, Lawrence; daughter Darya Alexander (Matthew Snyder) and two grandsons, Dean Alexander Snyder and Owen Andrew Snyder, Grafton, WI; sister Mary Alexander (Norman Schou), Washington, D.C.; sister-in-law Elizabeth Wardell (Donald Wardell), Indianapolis, IN; three nieces and three nephews. He was preceded in death by his parents, sister Anne Davidson and brother-in-law John Davidson.

In lieu of flowers memorial contributions may be made in Jay’s name to KU Endowment and may be sent in care of Warren-McElwain Mortuary, 120 W 13th, Lawrence, KS 66044.

The family would like to thank all who cared for Jay at Lawrence Memorial Hospital, especially cardiologist Dr. Michael Zabel and palliative support services’ Janelle Williamson NP and Compassionate Care Hospice case manager Teresa Hunsberger RN.

Online condolences may be posted at warrenmcelwain.com

 

11 Condolences

  1. ROBERT JEAN BURCH on December 7, 2018 at 4:50 pm

    I was a gtaduate student working towards my doctorate in the mid-sixties, and learned much from Jay. He was an excellent mentor, and a pretty hood “bballer”.



  2. Russ Hutchins on December 10, 2018 at 9:01 pm

    Jay was a good friend at the Endacott Society lunch bunch. We shared views and thoughts on Russian literature. He had a great smile. A true gentleman. He was a Jay. Hawk. Russ and Joyce Hutchins.



  3. George Munro on December 11, 2018 at 10:45 am

    Dear Maria and family,
    I sympathize in your loss. Because of our mutual interest in 18th-century Russia, Jay took an avid interest in my research and encouraged me at many steps. My book on St. Petersburg in the reign of Catherine the Great would not have been published without his support. I often enjoyed his company at conferences over the years. He was the best of colleagues and his memory is treasured.



  4. Lillie McKinney on December 11, 2018 at 11:34 am

    Dear Maria and family,
    I am so sorry for your loss. I haven’t seen you in a long time, but Jay and my late husband, Lewis McKinney, were colleagues. Again, I send you my deepest sympathy and wish you comfort and peace as you grieve.



  5. Joe Gibson on December 11, 2018 at 7:51 pm

    Dear Maria, Michael, and Darya,
    My thoughts and prayers are with you all. Jay was my dear friend since my early days at Wesleyan. He was a bright light then and throughout our years of our friendship. I will miss him
    A lot. Love to you all.



  6. Pat Newton on December 12, 2018 at 11:12 am

    Maria, Michael, and Darya,
    I am so sorry for your loss. Jay has always been a great supporter of St. John School. Our community has lost a great man. I have many memories of your family attending St. John School. Eternal rest and peace to Jay.
    Pat Newton, Principal



  7. Cristy Sullivan on December 12, 2018 at 3:26 pm

    Miss Maria, Darya and Michael,
    I am so sorry about your Dad. Please know that you all are in my prayers. May Jay rest in peace!
    Cristy from Corpus



  8. Omofolabo Soyinka Ajayi on December 13, 2018 at 2:10 pm

    My deepest condolences, Maria and family. How you must miss him so! He always had something positive to say, and remained cheerful through the difficult days. I pray that the memories of the times you had with him sustain you and bring you smiles through the sadness.
    Folabo.



  9. Karl F. Morrison on December 20, 2018 at 1:28 pm

    Dear Maria,

    Anne and I were saddened to hear a couple of days ago that Jay had left us. He was one of the people who did most to invite us to KU and Lawrence, and, by your welcome and friendship, both of you helped make it a true and much-loved home for us. Over time, we found much in common, in mind and spirit, not least a hankering for upstate New York and an affinity for Russian Orthodoxy. We will keep him, you and your family in our prayers especially this Christmas season. With love, Anne and Karl



  10. Victor Bailey on December 30, 2018 at 12:02 pm

    Maria,
    I was so sorry to miss the memorial mass for Jay. Thirty years ago, I entered my new office in Wescoe, catty-corner from Jay’s. Seconds later, Jay was warmly welcoming me as a new faculty member. We spent a good deal of time together that first summer before classes began, and I learnt a lot from him. He was a generous and thoughtful colleague and loyal friend. We extend our heartfelt condolences to you and your family. Love, Victor & Kathryn.



  11. Kukol'shchikova Larissa on January 16, 2019 at 4:47 am

    Dear Maria,

    My heartfelt sympathy to you, Michael and Darya. I met Jay and you in 1963 (?)
    in Leningrad, so Jay was my lifelong friend. He used to come to L-d to work in the
    Archives, and each time we met to exchange our news. Last time we met in
    Washington where I was teaching at Georgetown Univ. as a visiting professor.
    I was very homesick, and one day i got a call from Jay from a subway station.
    Somehow , he found out that i was in Washington and he came to see me there.
    I was extremely grateful to him! I keep all his emails, and for me he’ll be alive forever! Love, Larissa.



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