Donald Richard Raybern

Memorial services for Donald Richard Raybern, 77, Lawrence, will be held at 10:30 a.m. Friday, December 30, 2022, at First United Methodist Church in Lawrence. Don passed away on Sunday, December 11, 2022, from Parkinson’s complications at his home, surrounded by family.

Don was born on March 10, 1945, in Lawrence, KS, the son of Joseph N. and Margaret E. (Severns) Raybern. After attending Kanwaka Grade School, Don graduated from Lecompton High School in 1963. Don served in the United States Air Force from June 1965 to December 1968. He graduated from the KU School of Social Welfare in 1975 and earned a Master of Social Work from KU in May 1976. He worked as a school social worker in the Topeka USD 501 district and at St John’s Catholic School. He ended his career working 15 years as a Special Education Paraprofessional for the Lawrence USD 497 district.

He married Shari Vick on February 14, 1969, at First United Methodist Church in Lawrence. They shared a lifetime of love, adventures, and KU sports.

Don is survived by his wife, Shari, his daughters Jennifer Raybern and Kelli (Randall) Hedges, adoring grandchildren Brea, Joshua and Dylan Hedges, sister Martha Smith, brother Gary Raybern, Aunt Sally (Guy) Coffman, brother-in-law Kevan (Gail) Vick, sisters-in law Ardie Meadows, Melinda Raybern and Dixie Raybern, and numerous cousins, nieces and nephews. Don has also had 5 granddogs to love.

Don was an avid traveler, visiting all 50 states and multiple countries, and making 25 trips to New Zealand to see his grandchildren. These trips often involved National Parks and historical sites as Don loved the outdoors and history. Don collected rocks, each with a story, and collected Native American art including many turtle and bear carvings. He had tremendous respect for other cultures, religions, and philosophies and approached all of them eager to learn. Don was known for his pancakes and other baking, loved reading, and sharing his books with others, and attended more sporting events with his wife than most could ever imagine. He loved baseball more than the rest of his family combined. He was an active member of First United Methodist Church for over 50 years, served for years at Jubilee Cafe, and volunteered at LMH Health.

Don was preceded in death by his parents, father-in-law and mother-in-law Allen and Elaine Vick, siblings Mary (Bob) Sutton, Jeanette (Lester) Wilson, Margaret (John) Richards, Hazel (Bill) Jones, Bill Raybern, Roger Raybern, sister-in law Lynette Rasmussen, and several nephews. He was followed in death by his brother Joe Raybern Jr.

During his battle with Parkinson’s disease, Don benefitted from Parkinson’s activity classes, the Lawrence Parkinson’s support group and therapy from LMH Health. The family would like to thank all of those who helped him and treated him with kindness.Thanks to his caregivers, the LMH Health staff, and Douglas County Visiting Nurses Association Hospice.

In lieu of flowers, the family suggests memorials in Don’s name to the First United Methodist Church Jubilee Cafe or Lawrence Humane Society and may be sent in care of Warren-McElwain Mortuary, 120 W. 13th Street, Lawrence, KS 66044.

10 Condolences

  1. Peggy Dirk on December 14, 2022 at 5:19 pm

    Loved you uncle. You left a forever footprint on my life. Love, niece Peggy (You’re gone but I will keep the things you said that made me laugh alive).



  2. Karen Newcome on December 14, 2022 at 5:44 pm

    Uncle Don, I love you and will miss you dearly. I will never forget the time we went to lunch together to celebrate our birthdays, and traveling to Arizona together. Rest in paradise Uncle. ❤️



  3. LuAnn wilcox on December 14, 2022 at 6:14 pm

    What a lovely tribute to Don, so beautifully written. He had a wonderful life! My heat is with you Shari.
    ♥️LuAnn Wilcox



  4. Debra Tyler on December 14, 2022 at 10:03 pm

    Thinking of you Shari and hugging you in my heart. ❤️



  5. Sarah Campbell on December 15, 2022 at 6:25 pm

    Don and I volunteered at LMH. We enjoyed listening to Don’s stories about growing up and laughing at his jokes. May he RIP.



  6. Jane Harris on December 15, 2022 at 8:45 pm

    Don was a valued member of the Lawrence Breakfast Optimist Club. I enjoyed getting to know Don through our many activities. He was a gentle guy who would share his life experiences & his love for travel (especially to New Zealand). He will be missed.



  7. Deb Engstrom on December 16, 2022 at 6:32 am

    Don was a valuable member of the special education team at LHS. He was more than willing to go the extra mile for students and co-workers. Some of our former students ask about him every time I see them, and when we go to KU Women’s basketball games, they always look over to the seats where he and Shari always sat. He will be missed by many.



  8. Jennifer VanSchmus Chartier on December 16, 2022 at 2:23 pm

    What a kind and generous soul. Remembering his life with gratitude and love for his family.



  9. Dennis Salyer on December 16, 2022 at 11:08 pm

    Don, I miss our time at West Jr. High. You were a good man and made my day, watching the student out back. we were the only ones who would take that “interesting” duty that no one else wanted to get involved with. Hope your Guardian Angel takes this quick note to you in GOD’s Kingdom. Your in the best place now, and out of this broken world. Maybe I’ll be in touch, when I knock on Heaven’s Door. Have a great time with our LORD and SAVIOUR, CHRIST JESUS.



  10. George J Kamburoff on February 24, 2023 at 12:56 pm

    Don and I have been friends since 1967. I remember him with warmth and laughter.
    I miss him already.



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