Bruce G. “Butch” Neis

Funeral services for Bruce G. “Butch” Neis, 60, Eudora, KS will be held at 10:00 a.m. on Monday, February 17, 2014 at Eudora High School Performing Arts Center, 2203 Church Street. Burial will follow at Hesper Friends Cemetery, SE of Eudora, KS. He died Wednesday, February 12, 2014 at Lawrence Memorial Hospital.

Bruce was born March 15, 1953 in Lawrence, KS the son of Samuel G. Jr. and Elizabeth Kindig Neis.

He was a farmer, a welder and owned Bruce Neis Trucking.

He was a lifetime member of the Eudora Township Volunteer Fire Department. He also was a member of Eudora Emergency Medical Services for 22 years and a 14-year sponsor of the All-Night After Prom Party at Eudora High School.

He married Bonnie Jean Bartling on November 4, 1978 in Eudora, KS. She survives of the home.

Other survivors include two sons; Richard B. Neis (spouse Carrie) of Eudora, KS, Aaron M. Neis (partner, Thaddeus Winter) of Honolulu, HI; three foster daughters, LaDuska Howell, of Eudora, KS, Katie Beery, of Kansas City, KS, Kasie Olds, of Pittsburg, KS, two brothers; Samuel D. Neis (spouse Bill Spinney) New Bedford, MA, Russell D. Neis (spouse Tina), of McKinney, TX, one sister, Carol A. Neis, of Littleton, CO, four grandchildren; Reilly Neis, Kasen Neis, Jayden Werst, Jaelyn Howell, one nephew, Anthony Neis and two nieces, Samantha Neis and Lisa Bartling. His parents preceded him in death.

The family will greet friends from 3-6 p.m. Sunday, February 16, 2014 at Warren-McElwain Mortuary-Eudora Chapel.

The family suggests memorials in his name to the Eudora High School FFA and may be sent in care of the mortuary.

37 Condolences

  1. Gloria High on February 13, 2014 at 1:13 pm

    Bonnie, Aaron, and Richard,

    Prayers for all of you! Thinking of you during this difficult time. May God lift you up and give you comfort!

    The High Family



  2. Dean and Karen McCollum on February 13, 2014 at 1:34 pm

    So sorry to hear about Bruce. May GOD take you threw this.



  3. Rochelle Beatty on February 13, 2014 at 2:13 pm

    So sad today as Leon and I try to understand the passing of our dear friend and neighbor. All of Eudora lost a great neighbor. Bruce touched so many people. His gifts were time, kindness and love. He always had time for others. Love and time to be the parent to many foster children as well as his own sons and to be a dedicated husband for Bonnie, time to be there for neighbors with farming and friend needs, and kindness to anyone he came across. You are all in our thoughts and prayers as we grieve your loss together.

    Rochelle Beatty and Leon Mueller



  4. Kay Miller on February 13, 2014 at 2:21 pm

    We are so sorry to hear about Bruce. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. Please let us know if there is anything you need at all.
    The Doug Miller Family



  5. janet spring on February 13, 2014 at 8:27 pm

    Bonnie and family–I am so sorry to hear about Bruce. Bruce is such a special person and will be missed greatly! Prayers and good thoughts coming hour way!



  6. Gary Wilson on February 13, 2014 at 8:51 pm

    Bonnie and family.

    Was shocked to hear about the passing of Butch. Way too short of life here on earth. Our thoughts and prayers with you and the family.

    Gary and Stephanie Wilson



  7. Aunt Georgia and family on February 13, 2014 at 8:57 pm

    Bonnie,

    We are so very sorry to hear about Bruce. You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers.

    Your family from Minnesota



  8. Karl Bock on February 14, 2014 at 6:11 am

    Bonnie, Sam and family,

    I was very saddened to hear about the passing of Bruce. I was so fortunate to have met him years ago through Sam. He was truly a “good old boy” from Kansas. Every time I saw him he was upbeat, had a great smile on his face and made me feel so welcome. He will be missed. My thoughts are with the entire family.



  9. Rae Kearns on February 14, 2014 at 7:18 am

    We are so very sorry for your loss. From all of us at Hamm Quarry, Butch will be dearly missed. We will keep all of you in our prayers.



  10. Judy and Eric Smith on February 14, 2014 at 10:28 am

    Bonnie, our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Eric always enjoyed coffee time with Bruce and the guys. He was a special person. May God be with you with all during this difficult time.

    Eric and Judy Smith



  11. Kasie on February 14, 2014 at 11:10 am

    You were a man of many talents. You taught me so many things that I will treasure for life. You took me in your home and under your wing when I had no where else to go. You have become a huge part in my life and loved me as your own. I love you Dad!



  12. Chris White on February 14, 2014 at 1:37 pm

    Bonnie, Richard & Aaron-
    I’m so sorry to hear about Bruce. My thoughts and prayers to all of you during this very difficult time.



  13. Pam Miller Coozennoy on February 14, 2014 at 3:33 pm

    Bonnie and family I am so sorry for you loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you.



  14. Hillary Harris on February 14, 2014 at 5:44 pm

    Bonnie, Richard and Aaron,

    I’m so sorry for your loss! He was an amazing man that will be greatly missed by all. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time!



  15. Mary Jane Church on February 14, 2014 at 6:42 pm

    I am so sorry to hear about Bruce’s passing. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Mary Jane Church



  16. Tina Lee Turner on February 14, 2014 at 9:13 pm

    Bonnie, Aaron, Richard, Carol, Sam, and Russ,
    Our prayers are with you and the entire Neis family.
    Your family was such an influence in my life. Butch will be greatly missed by all who know him.

    Condolences,
    Lee Family



  17. Sharon Munday on February 14, 2014 at 9:40 pm

    Our thoughts and prayers for Bonnie and all of the family. He will be dearly missed. M



  18. Mike, Jenny, Coy and Bailey Leming on February 15, 2014 at 12:59 pm

    We are so sorry to hear about Bruce. Please know that our thoughts and prayers are with all of you.



  19. LOIS NEIS HAMILTON on February 15, 2014 at 3:35 pm

    Bonnie, and family
    It is hard to understand that my cousin is gone,he was a good man,good husband and father. I am so so sorry,we will all miss
    him.
    Know his smile will light the heavens

    GOD BE WITH YOU ,MY PRAYERS ARE WITH YOI

    LOVE,LOIS



  20. Gene and Shirley Crawshaw on February 15, 2014 at 5:17 pm

    Bonnie and Family, you and your family are in our thoughts and prayers during this difficult time.



  21. Ava Frazier on February 15, 2014 at 7:04 pm

    Bonnie iam sorry about your loss Bruce was a awesome man I loved seeing him in his dumb truck around town. I will be thinking of you and always remember that he is in heaven with the all mighty god. At this time I want to comfort you in any way I can. the world will not be the same without Bruce. I love you and I am thinking about you.



  22. Rhonda O'Keefe on February 16, 2014 at 1:43 am

    Bonnie I am so sorry to hear of your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.



  23. Herman LeRoux on February 16, 2014 at 7:59 am

    Bonnie and family, I am so sorry to hear of the passing of Bruce. Bruce touched the hearts of many and will greatly be missed. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

    Herman LeRoux
    Debbie Feist



  24. George Puddephatt on February 16, 2014 at 12:01 pm

    My thoughts and prayers are with the entire family. Bruce will be deeply missed by all that had the pleasure of knowing him.



  25. Anita Donham on February 16, 2014 at 12:34 pm

    Bonnie, Richard and Aaron, My heart is hurting right now for you in your time. Bruce brighten my Saturday morning every week. He always had a funny story and had a heart of pure gold. He will be missed by the community and everyone who knew him. When God called him home he really must have needed some help, because Bruce was always willing to help anyone with a smile. You all are in my thoughts.

    Anita Donham



  26. Joe and Patty Johnston on February 16, 2014 at 1:36 pm

    Bonnie and family:
    We are so sorry for your loss. Bruce was a good man and of course will be missed.



  27. Lynda /Jerry/Chad and Amy Wilson on February 16, 2014 at 3:43 pm

    Bonnie and Family—So sorry to hear of Bruce’s passing. May god hold you and your family close in this time of loss.Bruce will definately be missed by all who knew him.



  28. The Katzfey Family on February 16, 2014 at 4:34 pm

    Bonnie and Family, you and your family are in our thoughts and prayers during this difficult time of Bruce’s passing.



  29. Murl and Carla Westheffer on February 17, 2014 at 8:59 am

    We are so very sorry to hear of Bruce’s passing. Every time we think of Bruce we smile because he was always so friendly, positive, and a joy to be around. Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you.



  30. Lynn Wilson-Bruce on February 17, 2014 at 10:41 am

    Bonnie and family ~
    Sor sorry to hear of your loss! My thoughts and prayers are with you!
    Love,
    Lynn Wilson-Bruce



  31. David & Karla Grosdidier on February 17, 2014 at 12:56 pm

    There will never be enough that can be said to make this time easier, but know that many people are thinking of you and praying for you. Everyone that was touched by knowing Bruce will miss him. Thoughts and prayers to your family.
    David & Karla Grosdidier



  32. Anonymous on February 17, 2014 at 7:29 pm

    Bruce was a prince of a man and a hard worker, and was a pleasure to do business with, sorry for your loss. Jim & Martha Carpenter



  33. Julie (Lee) Avila on February 17, 2014 at 9:14 pm

    Bonnie, Aaron and Richard,
    I am so sorry for your great loss in losing your husband and dad. I’m praying for you all during this time. May you feel God’s peace during this time.



  34. Karen Boyer on February 18, 2014 at 10:42 am

    Bonnie and Family,

    We send you prayers that your sadness and pain will be less than the joy of your memories of a man with a great heart and wonderful smile.

    Hugs and love,
    Karen, Steve and Kelson Boyer
    Sarah and Mary Braught,



  35. Anonymous on February 18, 2014 at 8:45 pm

    Bruce’s love for everyone will never be forgotten, the love he has for his family and friends will be a never ending love. He will love each one of us even with him not being here with is physically. Great man, with such a big heart will truly be missed by many.



  36. Brian & Pat Neis on February 22, 2014 at 6:13 pm

    Bonnie, we were so sad to hear about Butch. Pat just loved him the first time she met him because he was so unpretenscious and just an all around good guy who would do anything for friends and family.

    When Brian was a poor, broke college student living in Kansas City and blew the motor in his car, Butch and Greg Neis came up to his house with Butch’s truck and flatbed trailer and, after giving Brian what he felt was an adequate amount of jazz for trashing his car, he winched the car onto the trailer and took it back to the farm where he helped Greg put a rebuilt motor Brian’s Mom had bought in it. Probably no need to tell you he wouldn’t take a dime for any of it. What a great guy!

    God must have decided he was too great a treasure for this world and he needed him in heaven. We have Bonnie and the whole family in our prayers.



  37. Paul and Cherri Walrod on February 25, 2014 at 5:00 pm

    Bonnie and Family,
    We are all so very sorry for your loss. It is also a loss for the entire community. Landon called us from the Air Force Academy as soon as he heard. He was obviously upset, but also thankful for the time he got to spend visiting with Bruce over this last Christmas break. Landon greatly appreciated Bruce being generous with his time and hunting land. Bruce was a great roll model for so many young people in the community, including Landon.

    You are in our thoughts and prayers,
    Paul and Cherri Walrod Family



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