Joyce “Joy” Carmona

Joyce “Joy” Carmona, 77, of Lawrence, KS, passed away on May 12, 2024 at Bridge Haven Memory Care in Lawrence, KS. Visitation will be held on Wednesday, May 15, 2024 from 5:00 p.m.-7:00 p.m. at Warren-McElwain Mortuary, vigil service to follow. Mausoleum service will be held at 10:00 a.m. on Thursday, May 16, 2024, at Mt. Calvary Catholic Cemetery in Topeka, KS.

Joy was born on April 1, 1947, in Meriden, MS, to Jack Flanders and Verna Jones. She was the second oldest of ten siblings.

She married the love of her life, Manuel “Sonny” Carmona Jr., on June 23, 1986 in LaPlata, MD and he survives at their home with their favorite child, Sammy the dog, in Lawrence, KS.      

Survivors include her husband, Manuel “Sonny” Carmona Jr., children, Michael (Jen) Upchurch of Indian Head, MD, Manuel Carmona III of Lawrence, KS, Deena (John Weber) Carmona of Topeka, KS, grandchildren, Marly (Konner) Kelley, Reese Carmona, James Upchurch, Gavin Neill, Drew Upchurch, and one great-grandchild, Kolt Kelley. As well as many family and friends who loved her unconditionally.

The family extends heartfelt gratitude to the staff of Bridge Haven Memory Care for their exceptional care and support. Their dedication not only to Joy, but also to us during this challenging period has meant the world to us. We would also like to thank Ascend Hospice for their excellent care until the end. Their support brought comfort to our family during a difficult time, and we are truly grateful for their kindness and compassion.

Memorial contributions in memory of Joy may be made out to Ascend Hospice and may be sent in care of Warren-McElwain Mortuary, 120 W. 13th Street, Lawrence, KS 66044.

17 Condolences

  1. Angie Hutton Benfield on May 13, 2024 at 7:15 pm

    I have so many fun memories from Sonny and Joy’s house while growing up with Deena – all these years later and I can still hear Joy’s contagious laugh in my head. I’m so sorry Sonny and Deena, I’m thinking of you, and your family is in my prayers.



  2. Betty Flanders on May 13, 2024 at 8:29 pm

    Sonny, Deena, and Manuel you are in my thoughts and prayers. I was sorry to hear of your loss. Joy welcomed me and my girls into the family with opened arms and I always cherished that. I will always carry the memories of the times we got to spend together. God Bless, and peace be with you. ♡



  3. Mary Higgins on May 14, 2024 at 8:07 am

    Sonny and family . I am so sorry for the loss of Joy . She was such a sweet and lovely lady She had such a love for her family and her friends . I will never forget all the laughs we shared . Rest Peacefully Joy .



  4. Nadia Wrosch on May 14, 2024 at 9:25 am

    I’m so sorry to hear about Joy’s passing. My deepest condolences to the family during this difficult time. My childhood and teen years were filled with Joy’s wonderful smile and kindness as I spent many days playing, talking, and laughing in Deena’s room.



  5. Donna Osborn Fife on May 14, 2024 at 11:39 am

    Sonny and loved ones. I met Joy back in our Oxon Hill High School days. Her name reflects what she brought to all….JOY. I have enjoyed being in touch with her through out the years and seeing the happiness that Sonny brought into her life. Marly, thank you for always keeping us updated with pictures and post about Joy. May Joy Rest In Peace.



  6. Rick Devlin on May 14, 2024 at 3:23 pm

    Manny,
    My best wishes go your way in this sad time. I hope you and your family are able to celebrate your mother’s life and help each other through this difficult time.



  7. Sam Zipper on May 14, 2024 at 4:10 pm

    Manny, I am very sorry to hear about the passing of your mother. It is always hard to lose a beloved family member. I hope you and your family are able to come together. And please know that we are all thinking of you!



  8. Gene Rankey on May 14, 2024 at 5:36 pm

    Manny and his family: I am sorry to hear of your loss. May you find peace in this time, while cherishing her memory for years to come. You are in my thoughts and prayers, and may she rest in peace.



  9. Mike Taylor on May 14, 2024 at 8:01 pm

    Manny,

    It is so hard to lose a family member – I wish you well during your recovery from this loss.

    Sincerely
    Mike



  10. Diane Kamola on May 14, 2024 at 11:08 pm

    Manny – I’m so sorry to hear about the loss of your mother. I hope your memories of her provide some comfort in this difficult time.



  11. Lina Reinders on May 15, 2024 at 8:06 am

    Joy, you left an imprint on my heart. Sonny and family, my love and condolences to you all.



  12. Mary Hill on May 15, 2024 at 4:52 pm

    Manny-
    I am so very sorry to hear of your Mother’s passing. I wish you and your family joy in memory and strength in your continuing lives.
    Sincerely, Mary Hill
    Part of your KU family



  13. Tom Ortiz on May 16, 2024 at 12:05 pm

    Manny and family, Our most sincere condolences to you all. May God share his healing love. Tom and Sue Ortiz



  14. Rinda Wech on May 16, 2024 at 3:10 pm

    Oh, just got this forwarded to me from a friend. I’m so sorry to hear of Joy’s passing! Thinking of all of you!



  15. Doug Walker on May 17, 2024 at 12:41 pm

    I am very sorry for your loss. Please tell me if there is anything I can do.



  16. Clint Carlson on May 20, 2024 at 9:15 pm

    Sonny, Deena, and Manuel my deepest condolences. Sonny and Joy made a lasting impression on me. Love to you all.



  17. Michael & Rena Carmona on May 28, 2024 at 5:20 pm

    Sonny – So sorry to hear about Joy. We just learned today of her passing. She was a kind person. May she rest in peace



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