Carolyn S. Kirby

Carolyn S. Kirby, 76, Lawrence, passed away on Sunday, July 9, 2023, at LMH Health.

She was born on September 4, 1946, in Lawrence, KS, the daughter of Bernard and Bernice (Goff) Kennedy.

She was an Administrative Assistant at Lawrence National Bank.  Then went on to be a Clothing Buyer for Weavers Department Store.

She was co-owner of John Kirby Insurance Company, representing American National for over 30 years, where she managed the office for John.

Carolyn met John Kirby and they were united in marriage on May 1, 1982.  She was preceded in death by John on April 8, 2022.

Other survivors include their children Lora Hegeman, Lawrence, Stacey Torres, Lawrence, Steven (Brandi) Stauffer, Wellsville, Chris (Debi) Kirby, Omaha, NE, Andy (Ellie) Kirby, Omaha, NE; nine grandchildren, Erin Kirby, Sara Hegeman (Matt), Alex (Taylor) Mische, Jackson (Jordan) Kirby, Devin Kirby ( Christian), Samantha Torres (Tommy), Caden Kirby, Eli Torres, Kaylee Stauffer; three great-grandchildren, Brantley, Jordyn, Kaceton; Brother -in-law Matt (Marian) Kirby, sister-in-law Kate (Dennis) Pfeifer, sister-in-law Callie Kirby, brother Bernard Kennedy Jr., and many  nieces and nephews.  She was preceded in death by her parents, brother Rory Kennedy Sr, and brother in-law Joe Kirby.

The Family suggests memorial contributions may be made in her name to MADD (Mothers Against Drunk Drivers) and may be sent in care of Warren-McElwain Mortuary 120 W 13th Street, Lawrence, KS 66044

A Celebration of Life is planned for September 3, 2023, at the Union Pacific Depot, Lawrence, KS from 1:30 pm to 3:30 pm.

For more information or to post a condolence go to warrenmcelwain.com.

16 Condolences

  1. Lynn and Susan Metzger on July 12, 2023 at 6:03 am

    Susan and I are so sorry to hear about Carolyn. We always enjoyed visiting with her. She was a sweet soul who went through a lot. Condolences to the family.



  2. David Salsbury on July 12, 2023 at 9:21 am

    We are losing too many good members of LHS ‘64 all of a sudden……
    So sorry for your loss.



  3. Terry J Sutcliffe on July 12, 2023 at 11:01 am

    My sincere condolences to the family. Carolyn was an excellent employee, she will be missed

    Terry Sutcliffe



  4. George and Joyce Elliott on July 12, 2023 at 4:36 pm

    So sorry for your loss and our hearts go out to the family. She was a wonderful person and had a heart of gold. She loved her family and worshiped everyone of them. She will be missed by many.



  5. Sharon Russell Dwyer on July 12, 2023 at 5:51 pm

    Carolyn was a beautiful woman inside and out. I enjoyed her friendship during and after high school.
    My condolences to the family.



  6. Sheryl Henry on July 12, 2023 at 8:46 pm

    We are sending condolences to you all in this sad time. She and John were amazing people and meant a lot to us. Thinking of you all.



  7. Regina (Price) Turner on July 12, 2023 at 11:29 pm

    So very sorry to learn of Carolyn’s passing. Her family will be in my thoughts and prayers as they gather and share stories about her life and the legacy she leaves.



  8. Marsha Henry Goff on July 13, 2023 at 8:09 am

    I extend my deepest condolences for the loss of your mother and grandmother.



  9. George and Chris Martinez on July 14, 2023 at 6:24 am

    So sorry for your loss.
    Our prayers are with your family at this time.
    So happy we got to meet her last April.



  10. Maelyne Rider Schultz, Billings, Montana on July 14, 2023 at 10:02 pm

    So sorry to learn of Carolyn’s passing. She was a classmate of my LHS class of 1964.
    Condolences to her entire family.



  11. Kenna Tait on July 15, 2023 at 1:32 pm

    Lora & family,
    I am so sorry for your loss of Carolyn. I really enjoyed chatting with her over the years, her smile was infectious.
    Wishing you peace and comfort at this sad time.



  12. Debi Waggoner on July 18, 2023 at 9:37 am

    Carolyn & I were co-workers for many years at Lawrence National Bank and have remained friends over the years. She was a beautiful women inside & out. My prayers are with her family and friends at her passing. The blessing is that she will be reunited with John!



  13. Kathy Houchin on July 19, 2023 at 4:36 pm

    I am so sorry to hear this news! May her rest be peaceful! God Bless her and her family!



  14. Shirley Shirk Anderson on July 22, 2023 at 8:42 pm

    Lora and Stacy, I met your Mother when I was a senior at LHS and she was a sophomore. Many years later Stacy and my son, Lawrence Trowbridge, were classmates at Wakarusa Valley School beginning as kindergartners. And, I became friends with Lora when she began working for LMH Health and I was and continue to be a Volunteer at LMH Health. Your Mother never changed from the time I met her in high school through the times I had an opportunity to visit Carolyn until her untimely death. She was beautiful inside and out and I treasure the memories I will always have of your Mother. Lora, Stacy, Steven, Chris, Andy and the grandchildren, you are in my prayers. Each of you will find comfort in your memories of this wonderful woman.



  15. George Goff on October 26, 2023 at 12:37 am

    Carolyn, what can I say ? I and my sister Vicki were blessed to say she was our cousin. She was so wonderful and loving to us as her younger cousins . And we both felt a comfort and happiness when we were with her. She was as one post said so beautiful inside and out. She did go through some very tough issues in her life. But always stayed the course and put on a happy face. She was strong for the family even through her own pain. A very strong will. Both Vicki and I along with my wife will always have good memories of her. As the years went by we worked , raised families of our own and yes unfortunately we didn’t visit as often as I would have liked. But our feelings for her never did wain. I know she was responsible for raising a good family. Who became great people. So I say she was a successful human being and parent. Carolyn and John both will never leave our thoughts. God bless you my cousin. And I send condolences and prayers to all the family. George & Barb Goff and family , John & Vicki Goff Miller and family. ❤️



  16. Tammie Torneden-White on October 27, 2023 at 3:24 pm

    Stacy and Laura I am so sorry to hear about your mom. Many thoughts go back to our days at Wakarusa. Your whole family is in our thoughts and prayers during this time.



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