Thomasine Wermy Ross

Service times are pending for Thomasine Wermy Ross, 69, Lawrence. Thomasine passed away Monday, December 2, 2019, at Select Specialty Hospital in Kansas City, KS.

Thomasine was born on April 15, 1950 in Lawton, Oklahoma, the daughter of Fred and Ruth (Hunt-Segar) Wermy.

Survivors include her husband, Stanley Ross of the home, sons, Aaron and Lucas Ross, brother, Jeffrey Wermy, Sister, Margo Knifechief and numerous grandchildren.

Memorial contributions may be made in her name to the Haskell Foundation and may be sent in care of Warren-McElwain Mortuary, 120 W. 13th Street, Lawrence, KS 66044.

19 Condolences

  1. caryn scott on December 4, 2019 at 8:26 am

    Stanley and boys, My heart aches for you. I know how your family loves each other. my prayer is that your love sustains you and comforts you at this time. Caryn Scott



  2. Carrie C. on December 4, 2019 at 10:22 am

    Ross family, sending my prayers to each one of you during this time. I will always cherish the embrace, smile and kindness Thomasine provided not only for me but for everyone. I know she loved Lawrence and I know the entire Haskell family always cherished her and her generosity. May you rest in peace Thomasine. Prayers for Stan and the boys, she is now pain free and watching over you until you meet again. Much love, Carrie Coffey



  3. Cecelia "Ce-Ce" Tsatoke on December 4, 2019 at 11:22 am

    Prayers to the family, she was so kind to me when I was a student and employee of Haskell, soar high lady!!! Ah ho for your life and those you befriended along your way.



  4. Dianne Yeahquo Reyner on December 4, 2019 at 11:23 am

    Will work for food …,
    That always made her laugh. My heart aches to hear Tommie is no longer with us. She was always a lady with a big heart. Stan, and boys I know how much you will miss her. There is a tear in the universe today for you all. I will also miss her. Know that my heart stands beside you.
    Dianne Yeahquo Reyner



  5. The Wilson's on December 4, 2019 at 12:03 pm

    Stan, Aaron & Lucas Ross, Our Condolences. I myself can not believe it, my heart goes out to you three. Thomasin will surely be missed, she always had a smile that surely brighten our day and always so loving and caring. She has seen my children grow up and my grandchildren grow up as well. You was a second mom to my children and always looked out for them and for all that I thank God for putting you, Stan and the boys in our path. Stan, Aaron & Lucas God bless you give you strength and comfort. Love you guys <3



  6. Dusty Murphy & Family on December 4, 2019 at 1:26 pm

    My family and I would like to extend our prayers and condolences to Stan and the entire Ross family. Stan and Tommie were always very good friends to my mother Joni Thompson Murphy, from back in the days of the Renegade Art Warriors up until her passing. Tommie has a real special place in my family’s heart for all the efforts she made to save the Wetlands. The world is a better place for her having been here.



  7. John Scott Harjo on December 4, 2019 at 2:18 pm

    Stan, Aaron and Lucas, I ask that the Good Lord send each of you a comforting spirit to ease your pain and also to know that Thomasine is no longer in pain and in the comfort of her family and God Almighty. Thomasine was always so kind to me and always wanted to know how I’m doing. She did a lot of things that touched many lives and I know that today she is wearing a crown she earned for her deeds here in Earth.
    Thomasine will be greatly missed, the Lawrence Indian community has lost another irreplaceable soul.
    Thomasine may you rest in peace!



  8. Chelsea Earles on December 4, 2019 at 7:08 pm

    Stan, Aaron and Lucas, I’m so sorry to hear this. Thomasine was the warmest most loving person. I can’t remember her ever not laughing. She always wanted to know what we were up to. I was just thinking of her the other day. I’m sending you hugs and love. Please hug each other for me until hopefully we can see you around Christmas.



  9. Jeanetta buzzard on December 4, 2019 at 7:41 pm

    Stan Aston and Lukas my sincere condolences my heart is heavy for you and your family. I knew her a long time from our days at Haskell. She was such an amazing woman always kind and shared a smile wherever she was. The angels rejoiced upon her arrival in heaven. She is without pain and suffering now. May God wrap you in his arms and give you comfort. She will truly be missed.



  10. Jeanetta buzzard on December 4, 2019 at 7:43 pm

    Stan Aaron and Lucas my sincere condolences my heart is heavy for you and your family. I knew her a long time from our days at Haskell. She was such an amazing woman always kind and shared a smile wherever she was. The angels rejoiced upon her arrival in heaven. She is without pain and suffering now. May God wrap you in his arms and give you comfort. She will truly be missed.



  11. Cheryl LaFrenz and Family on December 4, 2019 at 8:18 pm

    I’m so sorry to hear that thomasine had passed away. I was just asking Josh if he knew how she was. Know that she was a beautiful person who we loved very much.



  12. Freda Maya on December 4, 2019 at 10:11 pm

    Hey Stanley, this is Freda Wolfe Maya sending condolences from Cherokee keeping you and the boys in my prayers.



  13. Darla S. Harrison on December 5, 2019 at 5:41 pm

    She always called me, Darla Sue. She’s the only one I would allow to do this. She was a beautiful friend who always had a smile on her face. Blessings to all her family, relatives, and family. My sincere condolences.



  14. Loretta Knifechief on December 6, 2019 at 11:31 am

    Knifechief Family
    Our hearts are heavy. Prayers for Uncle Stan and Aaron and Lucas.
    We love you. Thomasin you were the most beautiful soul. You will always be rememered.



  15. Sharyn Chino on December 6, 2019 at 12:32 pm

    Stanley Ross, Sons, and Family, I bet she is dancing up and down on those streets of gold. She was always kind to me and loved to laugh. I have long admired your love, commitment, and strength as a caregiver to your dear wife, Stan. You did good by her.



  16. Kerry & Frances Girty on December 7, 2019 at 11:35 am

    Stan & Boys,
    Sending our prayers. May you find comfort in knowing how how many lives she touched. May God Bless you.



  17. Meriah Knifechief on December 7, 2019 at 11:48 am

    Meriah Knifechief
    My heart has been so hurt lately I loss my mom she was truly my mom also she was there to talk to me about what was going on but then again we gain an angel in heaven iam so sorry uncle stan I know that she’s the love of ur life and u were great together and they say shes still with us and the boys we got to stick together cause all we have is eachother sending my love and prayers of healing now love my family in Lawrence Kansas from Phoenix Arizona……. until we meet again.



  18. Alan Zimmerman and Caroline Trowbridge on December 8, 2019 at 1:30 pm

    Stan, Aaron and Lucas,
    Our thoughts are with you. Thomasine was always so kind. Take care of yourselves.



  19. Gloria Graves on December 10, 2019 at 9:34 pm

    Stan, our deepest condolences to you and your family. You and your family will be in our thoughts and prayers during this difficult. Thomasine had a beautiful soul. She was kind, compassionate and caring person. She will be greatly missed by many who loved her. May she rest in peace.

    Perry & Gloria Graves



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