Scott Andrew Thomas
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Memorial services for Scott Thomas, 55, Lawrence, will be held from 5-7 p.m. on Thursday, December 28, 2023 at Warren-McElwain Mortuary in Lawrence. Scott passed away on Friday, December 15, 2023, at his home.
Scott was born on July 21, 1968 in Wichita, KS, the son of Paul Bashor Thomas and Ann Victoria Sheldon Thomas.
He graduated from Lawrence High School in 1986, where he was active in music and theater, and the University of Kansas with a degree in Journalism in 1990.
Having a passion for helping care for those who needed care the most, Scott was an avid and passionate supporter of LGBTQ+ issues, Black Lives Matter and the rights of the marginalized and the oppressed. He worked for years at Community Living Opportunities, in homes for adults with developmental disabilities. He truly enjoyed his clients who he would fondly remember, years later.
He enjoyed singing and listening to music and had a beautiful baritone voice. Formerly a member of the University of Kansas Jazz Choir, San Francisco Gay Men’s Chorus and the Heartland Men’s Chorus of Kansas City – he was an asset to any choir.
Survivors include his mother Victoria Thomas (Roger Lambson, deceased), Shawnee, KS; his father, Paul (Kathleen) Thomas, Bella Vista, Arkansas; brother, Chris (Cindi) Thomas, Baldwin City, KS; aunt, Jan (Jim Sherman) Sheldon, Lawrence; stepfather, Donald (Paula) Hatcher, Lawrence; niece, Zoe Thomas; several cousins and many friends.
Memorial contributions may be made in Scott’s name to the Gay, Lesbian and Straight Education Network (GLSEN) or a charity of the donor’s choice and may be sent in care of Warren-McElwain Mortuary, 120 W. 13th Street, Lawrence, KS 66044.
For more information or to post a condolence go to warrenmcelwain.com.
Love you, Scotty! I’m going to miss our conversations. I hope heaven is one big never-ending ’80s concert. ❤️
Scottie, I remember how many times we laughed! Our little group full of smiles and happiness. A memory never forgotten! Go be with God, and continue to be the fun loving person I will always remember!
We miss you already, Scott. You brought a lot of laughter and fun to my life the past few years, and I appreciated your unique perspective in life. And Facebook will definitely never be the same without you! Your sense of humor was on point. The Woodward family will remember you always and keeps your family members in our thoughts.
Dear Scooter, I already miss your sweet, unique soul, and really wish we all had more time with you. May you rest in peace and love.
For my dearest …I am at a loss for words. The world will be less brighter without you. I am heartbroken. May you be at peace and feel the light and love you have shown those you care about tenfold. You will always have a place in my heart.
He was so loved, and he loved back immensely. My heart goes out to his family and friends. Missing you already, Scooter.
❤️🧡💛💚🩵💙💜
Scooter. I am just in shock. My deepest condolences to family and friends Though we lost track of each other, Scott was always in my heart. One of my favorite memories was of him putting on mini broadway reviews for my cats lol. How he would sing Sound of Music in the shower and the cat would be singing with him. Or that time I came home to find him sitting on the couch with a beer and my big fat yellow cat in his arms singing Old Man River to him. Quintessential Scott. They adored him almost as much as we did. Rest in Peace dear friend.
Scott, you were so loved and you loved fully in return. Getting a message with a funny story that you knew would make me laugh was a little burst of light in a busy day, and those conversations will be so very missed. I hope you are wearing a big sparkly ring on every finger and dancing to some 80’s tunes, reunited with ones you’d loved and lost.
In this dark world, his light was truly needed and is missed. Rest easy now Scooter, I’ll treasure our reconnection and friendship always.
Dear Scott’s Family,
I was deeply saddened to hear about the loss of your beloved Scott. He was truly an extraordinary and kind-hearted soul, and his absence will be felt by all who had the privilege of knowing him.
Scott possessed a rare and genuine kindness that radiated from him. His gentle nature and caring spirit touched the lives of everyone he met. Whether it was a comforting word, a helping hand, or a warm smile, Scott always went out of his way to make those around him feel valued and loved. He had an uncanny ability to bring joy and solace to even the most challenging moments, and his compassion knew no bounds.
Scott’s departure leaves a void that cannot be filled, and he will be greatly missed by all who had the privilege of knowing him. Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you during this incredibly difficult time. I am deeply sorry for your loss, and I hope that you find solace in the cherished memories of the beautiful soul that Scott was.
May his memory be a source of comfort and strength as you navigate the days ahead. Scott’s legacy of kindness and love will live on in the hearts of those who were fortunate enough to call him a friend, a family member, or simply, someone they knew.
With heartfelt condolences,
Jamie Price
Scott, I’ve been waiting to say anything, thinking the right words would come, but there are no right words for this. You were such a bright light here on this old earth, with your humor and insight and authenticity and compassion and love. I will miss you so much and the world will be a bit darker now, but I hope you are somewhere surrounded by love and light and I’m only going to say farewell for now. Love you. To Scott’s family, I am so very very sorry for your loss.
Scott, I had really enjoyed our little Centennial and CJHS mini reunions albeit on FB with a memory that a few of us remembered and looked back at fondly. As we got older I just kept trying to remember how we got from Scot to Scooter if it was our days in stamp club (excuse me philately club) , the Bean Stalk and Jack or one of the awesome times in Excalibur! You were so kind, talented, and loved by so many and I can’t tell you how much your smile and laugh still resonates in my heart and memories. We loved you Scooter and I want you to know that you taught me so much about being true to yourself and what a great roller skater you were. Thank you for being my friend. I look forward to seeing your incredible smile and sweet face again.
A Lyric For Scott,
“You just call out my name
And you know, wherever I am
I’ll come runnin’
To see you again
Winter, spring, summer or fall
All you have to do is call
And I’ll be there
You’ve got a friend” – JT
Love Your Best Friend,
– John