Reta Jacobs
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Graveside services for Reta M. (Wilson) Jacobs, 88, Lawrence, will be held at 11:00 a.m. Wednesday, July 14, 2010 at Memorial Park Cemetery in Lawrence, KS. She died Sunday, July 11, 2010 at her home.
She was born May 22, 1922 in Lawrence, Kansas the daughter of Clarence E. and Della Mae (Hatch) Wilson.
She was a homemaker and worked at the SRS office for 20 years.
She was a member of The Order of Eastern Star and The Order of the White Shrine. She also attended North Lawrence Christian Church.
She married Arthur R. “Jake” Jacobs on June 12, 1941 in Lawrence, KS. He preceded her in death on March 4, 1994.
Survivors include a son, Earl “Ed” Jacobs and wife Sonja; two daughters, Linda Helton and husband, Myrl; Connie Kesinger and husband, Kevin all of Lawrence; a brother, Wiley Wilson and wife, Marie of Lawrence; seven grandchildren, Angela and Steve Strum; Clint Breithaupt; Lisa and Kevin Jones; Mark and Gwendolyn Jacobs; Lori and Hayden Fowler; Kyle Kesinger and Casey Kesinger; eleven great-grandchildren: Delaney Blessing, Madison Fowler, Zach Breithaupt, Jacob Strum, Mason Fowler, Ethan Jacobs, Mayte Breithaupt, Rosie Strum, J.T. Jones, Aidan Jacobs, Saida Jacobs and many nieces and nephews.
She was preceded in death by two sisters, Evelyn Wilson and Ruth Phillips.
The family will greet friends from 6-8 p.m. Tuesday, July 13, 2010 at the Warren-McElwain Mortuary.
Memorial contributions may be made to Douglas County VNA, and Rehabilitation and Hospice Care and sent in care of the mortuary.
May she rest in peace. It was indeed a blessing being her nephew these many years.
She was a wonderful aunt. She laughed with you and cried with you. There was always a grin and a hug when you went to visit!!!! She had the best sense of humor. She was a classy lady for sure, no wonder my Uncle Jake fell for her!!!
It is difficult to put into words the feelings we have at this time of her passing over. I’ll bet she’s already up there talking and laughing with Uncle Jake and all the rest of our family and friends who have gone ahead of her. She was one of a kind and will be missed by all who knew and loved her.
Connie, Kevin, Kyle & Casey, Always in our hearts and prayers. What wonderful memories we all have of Grandma Jacobs:)Much love to you and your family during this difficult time.
Connie and Family… My heart goes out to all, in the loss of your Mom. I hope in time, you all can find some comfort in your pictures and memories. She was always such a beautiful woman to me. I’m sorry for your loss. Cindy
Connie and Family… My heart goes out to all, in the loss of your Mom. I hope in time, you all can find some comfort in your pictures and memories. She was always such a beautiful woman to me. I’m sorry for your loss. Cindy
July 11, 2010,
Mother’s death-date and it’s quite alright with us,
In years past we have wept and mourned,
but now we’ve been set free;
For many years ago something happened,
and it strangely gave us peace,
The grieving that had bound our hearts gave way to sweet release.
Those some fourteen years ago that Daddy passed away,
His heart belonged to her and God, and on that final day
His guardian angel took his hand, and said, “I think you know,
Your loved ones all are waiting, sir, it’s time for us to go…
“A mighty celebration, sir, to be held on this date,
And you’re the guest of honor, sir, it’s best we not be late!
For God Himself has planned it thus, and therefore it shall be,
Ere earth was formed this date was writ by a Heavenly decree!”
So Daddy took the angel’s hand and flew to Jesus’ side,
And Mother stood beside the Lord, her arms held open wide;
And in that Land where there’s no pain, no sickness and no sin,
God’s laughter shook the heavens and said, “Let the partying begin!”
Today is Mother’s death-date, yet our hearts are filled with joy,
Our souls have found serenity which nothing can destroy;
The Most High God is ever nigh, He has no need of sleep,
And Mother’s wrapped in Daddy’s arms…so today we shall not weep
We wish we could be there. We love and miss you, grandma!
We love you and will miss you Grandma Reta… Knowing you and Grandpa Jake are together watching over us brings love to our hearts and a smile on our face.
Connie, Eddie, & Linda – I heard of your mother’s passing too late to attend the services. I’m sorry, for I would have liked to tell you in person how much your mother meant to me. She was a warm and loving lady, and a second mother to me on East Glenn. Memories of the time spent at your home then are among my happiest. My deepest sympathies for your loss.
LaDene
Dear Linda, Connie, and family,
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. I did not know her, but I know you. She must have been a wonderful woman to have nutured such a wonderful family. I am sure you have amazing stories to tell about her and your families. You are in my thoughts and prayers..Jeanne
Aunt Reta was the one who held us altogether. Do not let her passing keep us apart. We must know she is happier now with Uncle Jake and the rest. They must all be looking down now and raising their glasses and saying “someday you will know what being free of pain is and the peace and love we now know, until then we will party hardy — love you much”. I miss you Mama Reta. Love you much too!!!!!!