Lois Ann Weldon
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Graveside services for Lois A. Weldon, 64, of Lawrence, KS will be held Friday, February 12, 2021 at 10:30 am at Oak Hill Cemetery in Lawrence. The family will greet family and friends on Thursday, February 11, 2021 from 5-7 p.m. at Warren-McElwain Mortuary in Lawrence. A celebration of life will be held this summer. She died February 6, 2021 at her home in Lawrence.
She was born October 23, 1956 in Lawrence, KS, the daughter of Charles Hanna and Opal (Melton) Hanna Folks. She married her one true love, Bruce Weldon, on August 5, 1978 at South Park in Lawrence, KS. Through their adventures in life, their love never changed and only continued to grow stronger.
Lois had a long career working in several clerical jobs at the University of Kansas. For the last 24 years before she retired in 2019, she was the Administrative Assistant at the Beach Center on Disability. She was instrumental in countless major projects including multi-million-dollar grants, book manuscripts, international correspondence, event planning, graphic design, office renovation, and more. She was honored as the KU Employee of the Month and was beloved by colleagues, doctoral students from across the world, and national/international visitors. She demonstrated incredible grace under pressure, especially in meeting grant deadlines.
Lois was civic-minded in her engagement in many community endeavors, including fund-raising for cancer treatment. She was an avid fan of her grandsons’ sports teams, as well as the Jayhawks, Chiefs, and Royals. She and Bruce travelled internationally with the Kansas Jayhawks Rugby Football Club and took many road trips in the U.S. to watch professional baseball games, marvel over historical sites, and enjoy their time together. They often travelled with a stuffed Jayhawk and took photos of it in unexpected places, including in front of the University of North Carolina and Duke basketball coliseums. She loved to knit and created many knitted treasures for her family and friends. Lois and Bruce were “regulars” at Johnny’s where they contributed mightily to the fun and fellowship of the extensive “Johnny’s family.”
Lois was beloved. All who knew her will sorely miss her loyal friendship, kindness, zest for life, and enlivening sense of humor.
In addition to being survived by her husband, other survivors include her daughters, Tina Peters (Billy Kelch II) of Andover, KS, and Courtney (Jason) Nowak of Lawrence, KS; her brother, Thomas (Barb) Hanna of Garland, Texas; and seven grandchildren.
The family suggests memorial contributions in her name to VNA Hospice or Lawrence Public Library and may be sent in care of Warren-McElwain Mortuary 120 W. 13th St. Lawrence, KS 66044. Online condolences may be left at warrenmcelwain.com.
Thinking of her family and friends and praying for happy memories to fill your hearts. Jerry and I were very sad to hear of your loss. She was a wonderful friend who always had a smile and fun spirit! We always looked forward to seeing her. She will always have a place in our hearts.
Our hearts are broken over hearing of Lois’s passing! I never seen Lois without a smile on her face. She was such a fun loving woman. She will be missed! Prayers to Bruce and all her family and friends.
Bruce, you know how sad Lois and I are, she was like a sister to Lois (BFF) and we loved her so much. We had so many incredible times together, our Union trips, our Mexico trip, and our football trips, will be cherished in our hearts forever. Bruce we are here for you for anything you need. To the whole Weldon family our prayers are with you always. At a time like this, words seem so trivial, but words are also how we mend and remember the joy Lois brought to all our lives. Her life was well lived and we will celebrate that life with all of you.
Lois was such a beautiful lady and brought joy to many people. She will truly be missed by everyone she touched. The Mayse family sends our love to your family.
I am so sorry for the loss of a wonderful woman. She treated everyone like family and welcomed people into her home. She will be truly missed.
Lois was a genuine and wonderful, warm person. I never knew her to know a stranger. She was such a kind and patient person, and she loved her grandchildren! I loved seeing the FB pics every Saturday of the Nowak grand’s sports games. She will be missed. May your memories comfort you, Bruce, Courtney, Tina and the large extended family of those who knew and loved her. Peace to you all-Deb Drummet
I am so grateful I was able to get to know Lois and share some time seeing her Joy in creating with Courtney and her grandsons. We will miss seeing her face at the workshop. We hold you in our prayers!
Lois was so kind and had a contagious zest for life. The glint in her eye helped me smile and persevere through numerous high-stress situations when I was a doctoral student at KU. Lois understood the important things in life: family, laughter, fun, friends, and steadfast progress. I will miss her and am so grateful for the chance to know her. Sending love to her family.
She will be sorely missed by those who had the privilege to be friends with her.
My sincere condolences to Lois’ family. We shared a babysitter 30 plus years ago. And later crossed paths at KU. Always smiling.
Bruce and Family,
I’m so sorry to hear about Lois’ passing. I’m keeping you in my thoughts and my heart.
Bruce and family: we were shocked and saddened to hear of Lois’ passing. Especially since we learned of it on Super Bowl Sunday when in normal times we would have seen her at the annual party. She was a wonderful, kind woman and who will be greatly missed. We are keeping your family in our thoughts during this difficult time.
Bruce, Ace and I are so sorry to hear of your loss. Lois was such a sweet, kind person. I knew her when I worked at the KU station even before you came to work at the post office. Again, so sorry. She will be missed by so many. Lareeda and Ace.
So deeply sorry to hear of Lois’ passing. She was a very dear friend. Our thoughts and prayers are with you Bruce and all the family.
My sincerest sympathies.
She was a good neighbor to me and will be missed.
Dear Bruce & Family,
As it snows here on the East coast, am thinking of you folks. Lois was so great at helping so many of us with grantwriting, making plans to attend retirement gatherings for folks at BEACH, etc…..tho Lois was young, she reminded me of my mom as she really was that ‘glue’ that kept folks connected. Hugs and prayers to you all,and thanks for sharing Lois with so many of us.
Bruce, so sorry to hear of Lois’ passing. We hung out together in high school and worked down the hall of each other in Strong Hall for a few years. Will miss seeing her at Johnny’s or the coast. She was a fun person to be around.
I was in shock when I heard that Lois had passed. My prayer are with you Bruce and all the family now and in the days to follow. She was a very rare and special lady and will be missed by all those whose lives she touched. Lois will leave behind so many precious memories that show how one life can make a difference. She has gained her Angel Wings and is at peace.
Bruce and girls, so sorry for your loss of Lois, she was such a sweetie, hugs and prayers and may the good memories stay in your heart.
Bruce, Courtney, and Tina, we are holding you in close in our hearts and prayers as we grieve with you over Lois’ passing. Having her as a beloved friend and respected colleague has been one of our greatest blessings in life. She contributed mightily to the Beach Center, Lifespan Institute, and University of Kansas, as her mother, Opal, did before her. We will treasure forever our daily memories of partnering with two generations of your precious family. We are here for you today, tomorrow, and for the rest of our lives.
Courtney
Your mother was a special person from day one. We go back to diapers together.
God be with you and your family. She really did earn her wings.
with much hugs, and prayers
Bruce and family
We are so sorry to hear about Lois. Since we haven’t been able to have our monthly meetings at Johnny’s, we’ve been missing you guys. It is hard to imagine those meetings without Lois. But when we can get together again, we’ll raise a glass to Lois and fond memories of good times with her. We send our love.
I was so saddened to hear of Lois’s passing.
I’ve known Lois since grade school, it was always a pleasure to see Lois, she always had a smile for everyone.
Wishing you all peace and comfort as you hold onto all of your beautiful memories you shared together.
My deepest condolences.
Lois made me feel so welcome when I first met her at Beach. I will always remember her as warm, loyal, clever, and kind. She also knew how to throw one heck of a party.
Bruce, please accept my condolences for you and your family on the passing of your wife. From reading her obituary she was an exceptional lady.
Dear Bruce and family,
I am truly sorry for the loss of your beloved Lois. I was one of the many doctoral students at the Beach Center who was touched by the kind spirit of Lois. She was an amazingly supportive person not only to the doctoral students but to all who reached out to her. Her smile was contagious and her heart big. She will be missed and remembered by so many. Sending peace and comfort to your family.
Bruce,
Kathy and I were saddened to hear about Lois. You guys were instrumental in our getting settled when we moved back to Kansas. She will be missed in our “neighborhood”
Alan & Deb King:
Bruce and family,
It brings much sadness to our hearts to hear of Lois passing. Lois brought happiness and a smile every where she was. We were so fortunate to have been friends, we definitely enjoyed the time we spent with the two of you.
On a lighter note – Lois I still owe you that dinner for the Jayhawks beating the Red Raiders so find a good restaurant and when we see each other again I am buying. You can be rest assured I will be there for Bruce.
We love you and miss you.
Alan and Deb King
Alan & Deb King:
Bruce and family,
It brings much sadness to our hearts to hear of Lois passing. Lois brought happiness and a smile every where she was. We were so fortunate to have been friends, we definitely enjoyed the time we spent with the two of you.
On a lighter note – Lois I still owe you that dinner for the Jayhawks beating the Red Raiders so find a good restaurant and when we see each other again I am buying. You can be rest assured I will be there for Bruce.
We love you and miss you.
Alan and Deb King
We are so, so sorry to hear of Lois passing. Such a fun person and she always had a smile and laugh every time we saw her. We had very fun times with you two and will always remember them!! Our hearts go out to your entire family.
Bruce,
OMG, I’m so shocked to see this! I know you may not remember me. I worked with Lois (Glenda and LaVerta) at KU, many years ago, in the word processing department. I was looking for my aunt’s obituary and saw this. I would like to send my deepest, sincerest, condolences to you, and both families.
Sincerely,
So sad and shocked to hear of Lois’ passing. She will be so missed by so many. Big hugs to the whole family.
Cheryl Healey
Bruce and family. Our hearts and prayers go out to you. Lois was a very special person. She had that unique talent to organize chaos. I will miss her smile. I have fond memories of all the times we shared over the years. Know that we love you and pray for your peace of mind and heart.
I went to high school with Lois. I remember her as one of the kindest people I have ever met. So sorry for your loss.
Patti (Gillispie) Green
Our sympathies and condolences to the Weldon family. Lois will be missed by so many. We are thinking of you, and hope you find comfort in your memories.
May she rest in peace…Class of 75…Mike Hadl…
Our thoughts are with you all. We were and are blessed by knowing Lois and having been lucky enough to share the neighborhood with your family.
Mike & Cindy
Bruce and family,
Sharing classes all the way back at Pinckney grade school I knew Lois was a special person. It was our pleasure to celebrate a number of events and parties with you over the years. Lois was always smiling and truly enjoying the moment. The video tribute is beautiful. Our heart goes out to you and your family. Missy & Mike
Bruce and Family and Tom and Family, I am so sorry to hear about Lois. Such a kind person. My sympathy and prayers for you all.
I met Lois through my daughter Heather. She knew her from doing her studies at the center. Heather was planning a wedding in Kansas and I was trying to help her with that, but with me living so far away, it had its challenges. Heather then mentioned that there was a woman at the center that offered to help. I asked her if she thought that she had really meant it, and she assured me that this person was so kind and helpful, that she was sure that she meant it. Of course, that was Lois. I emailed her and a wonderful relationship developed. We exchanged some 200 or so emails, and she became my eyes there and feet on the ground as she sent me pictures and sourced out items I was looking for. I couldn’t have done it without her. I always ran everything past Lois before decisions were made. I met her the night before the wedding and gave her the biggest hug!! I finally met this kind, and giving person who offered to help a complete stranger and did it so wholeheartedly. That summer, she and Bruce came to visit us in Canada and really enjoyed their company. It would have been nice to be closer and spend more time with them.
There aren’t many people like Lois. She had a very special place in my heart, and that place is aching now.
Condolences to the entire family. ❤️
Lois was an incredibly kind, fun, thoughtful, and giving person. On so many occasions she truly went out of her way for me. She also had a great sense of humour and when I was stressed, she helped me to not take things too seriously! I’m sorry to hear of her passing. She will be so missed by so many.
We are so, so sorry to hear of Lois passing. What a funny, sweet, cheerful, fun-loving person. Our deep sympathy to you, Bruce, and all the family. Our thoughts are with you, Lynette & Brad
Bruce,
From your friends in Sutton, NE, we send our condolences to you & your family.
Randy & Lisa (Scheidemann) Griess
I am so saddened by Lois’ passing. I was one of the doctoral students who got so much support and encouragement from Lois. Lois was always there with unforgettable smiles. I miss her a lot.