Jacqueline Dawn “Jacquie” Fender

Funeral services for Jacqueline Dawn Fender, 46, Lawrence will be held at 11:00 a.m. Friday, September 6, 2013 at Warren-McElwain Mortuary in Lawrence. Burial will follow at Oak Hill Cemetery. She left this life in exchange for a new one in heaven, Tuesday, September 3, 2013 at her home.

Jacquie was born April 16, 1967 in Lawrence, KS the daughter of Paul and Betty (Blevins) Estes.

She graduated from Lawrence High School; class of 1985.

She was an accounting clerk for Allen Press until 2003. At that time, she became a stay-at-home mom and helped the family business.

Jacquie was a member of PTO Woodlawn and held the office of Treasurer. She was actively involved in various school activities.

She was united in marriage to Sean Fender on April 23, 1988 in Lawrence, KS. To this union, a son, Nathan Clarke was added February 22, 2002. Sean and Nathan survive of the home.

Other survivors include her parents, Tonganoxie; one brother, Jeff Estes, Baldwin City; three sisters, Lori Mills, Baldwin City, KS, Tracey Mayer, Louisville, KY, Amy Estes, Tonganoxie; paternal grandmother, Mildred Pauline, Lawrence; and many aunts, uncles, cousins, nieces, and nephews.

The family will greet friends from 7 – 8:30 p.m. Thursday, September 5, 2013 at the Warren-McElwain.

Jacquie was known for her servants heart and loving kindness. She leaves a legacy of graciousness and quiet strength.

19 Condolences

  1. Debbie Higgins Campbell on September 3, 2013 at 9:17 pm

    My heart is breaking for the Estes family tonight. May you find comfort in knowing that Jacquie is walking the streets of gold in Heaven with our Lord! Praying for you!



  2. Angie Tingle Brandon on September 3, 2013 at 11:00 pm

    How devastating, My heart goes out to you all….She will truly be missed. May you find comfort in the memories you hold dear. Love you all.



  3. Ronda Bryan Brubaker on September 3, 2013 at 11:26 pm

    My deepest sympathies for the family and all that were lucky to have her in their lives. She was an amazing person and I always thought the world of her. I am in tears to hear that she is gone. But have faith that she is in Heaven, watching over her family. May God bless you all and help you through this.



  4. Jama Carter on September 4, 2013 at 9:13 am

    I don’t know what to say. My heart is breaking for you all. You are all considered as my family and I don’t have the words to express the sorrow I feel. Jacquie was one of the sweetest people god ever created and I do find comfort knowing she is in heaven with him know. Love you all!



  5. Tammy Lathrom Abram on September 4, 2013 at 9:17 am

    Of all people, I will never understand this one. I guess God needed an angel. She will truly be missed. Much love and condolences to her family. Much love.



  6. Carla Tilghman on September 4, 2013 at 9:39 am

    Sean, Nathan and Jacquie,

    I’m so sorry for your loss.
    Jacquie was one of those quiet women who make a strong impression. Her smile, her love of family and commitment to goodness will be tremendously missed.



  7. Mary Ann Saunders on September 4, 2013 at 9:45 am

    I am so sorry to hear of Jacquie’s passing. My heart goes out to you and to your son. I wish there was a way to put a “hug” into words. Take care of yourself and of your son.



  8. Peg, Steve and Randi on September 4, 2013 at 9:59 am

    Sean and Nathan I am sorry to hear about Jacquie’s passing. Prayers for you and Nathan along with the Estes family. Love to you all Peg



  9. Dean and Wanda Howard on September 4, 2013 at 10:32 am

    Betty and Paul, We are so sorry about the lose of Jackie. I can still see her sweet smiling face as she got on my school bus. And Dean and your family were very close. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. God Bless You All.



  10. Debbie Shirar on September 4, 2013 at 11:09 am

    The hardest part of loss is understanding why. We lose our loved ones and others who also loved her ask why. Who might have this answer to why? All I can say is this, I was honored and privileged to have known, taught and loved this young woman. My life has been better for it. I commend you on your parenting not only of Jacquie but of your other children whom I taught .May God give you the strength and comfort and know that God has a most precious addition to his family!
    With Respect and love



  11. Tammy Copp Barta on September 4, 2013 at 12:40 pm

    I was shocked and saddened by seeing this in the paper today. Jacquie was a wonderful person, I loved her smile and I so enjoyed visiting with her. Jeff and Sean and your families, please know my thoughts and prayers are with you during this time. May she be at peace now.



  12. Tammy Copp Barta on September 4, 2013 at 12:41 pm

    I was shocked and saddened by seeing this in the paper today. Jacquie was a wonderful person, I loved her smile and I so enjoyed visiting with her. Jeff and Sean and your families, please know my thoughts and prayers are with you during this time. May she be at peace now.



  13. Tina Mayo Tingle on September 4, 2013 at 1:03 pm

    I am so sorry to hear of Jaquies’ passing. She went to school with my younger Sister Angie Tingle….but I do remember her amazing beauty inside and out. May God Hold Her In His Loving Arms and may he give you Solice as you go through such a difficult time.



  14. Mark and Hazel Bahnmaier on September 4, 2013 at 2:39 pm

    Sorry to hear of your loss. Jacquie was a very sweet person. I know her family in heaven was there to welcome her to her heavenly home. Praying for your family.



  15. les and jean beguelin on September 5, 2013 at 11:46 am

    paul and betty so sorry to hear of jacquie ’s passing shes walking by sight now
    les and jean



  16. Gail Higgins Shepherd on September 5, 2013 at 11:49 am

    My deepest sympathies go out to the Estes Family. I have known Jacquie since we were five years old and started school together. She had a smile that drew everyone to her. May God send comfort to her family.



  17. Rusty Mort on September 5, 2013 at 1:42 pm

    So sorry to hear of your loss. Jacquie was a very sweet girl and touched a lot of hearts in her short stay on earth.
    Heaven is a better place now that she is there.



  18. From all of us...Alex, Mia, Jenny and Vanja on September 5, 2013 at 6:49 pm

    Sean and Nathan, there are no words I can say right now to show you how much we are with you in spirit and love and support. If you need anything all you have to do is ask. Jacquie’s mother spirit was deep and fierce and she will be deeply missed. Much love from all of us.



  19. Scott & Renee Beguelin on September 6, 2013 at 2:39 pm

    I’m so sorry for your loss. Please know that we are praying for you all.



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