Frederick Newton Six

Fred and Lilian Six.  We are holding a celebration of the lives of Fred and Lilian Six on Thursday May 9, 2024, at 11:00am at Plymouth Congregational Church followed by a reception at the Cider Gallery.  The family invites anyone who knew them to attend and remember their wonderful lives.  

Frederick Newton Six died on April 27, 2024, at home in Lawrence, Kansas. Fred was born to Deal Demmi Six and Gladys Newton Six in Independence, Missouri on April 20, 1929. He was preceded in death by his wife of 62 years, Lilian Six. 

Fred graduated from Liberty Memorial High School in Lawrence, Kansas and from the University of Kansas in 1951with a degree in history.  At KU he was an assistant editor of the Jayhawker Yearbook, participated in Rock Chalk Review and University Theatre, and was President of the Forensic League. Fred was a member of the Phi Delta Theta fraternity. 

Fred served in active duty as a First Lieutenant with the United States Marine Corps from 1951 to 1953 and in the Korean War from 1952 to 1953 where he received the Korean Service Medal with two stars and the United Nations Service Medal. 

Following his military service, he received a law degree from the University of Kansas School of Law in 1956, where he was Editor-in-Chief of the Kansas Law Review, recipient of the C.C. Stewart Award for graduating first in his class, and Order of the Coif. Fred later obtained an LLM in Judicial Process from the University of Virginia in 1990. 

Fred began his legal career at the Reid & Priest law firm in New York, and then returned to Kansas to serve as an Assistant Attorney General. He then joined the law firm of Asher, Ellsworth & Six, and then the law firm of Barber, Emerson, Six, Springer & Zinn from 1961 to 1987. He was appointed as a judge on the Kansas Court of Appeals in 1987, and then served as a Justice on the Kansas Supreme Court from 1988 to 2003. He was an adjunct Professor at the University of Kansas School of Law and a Lecturer in Law at the Washburn Law School.  Fred served in several roles on the Kansas Commission on Judicial Qualifications. 

Fred was a member of many professional organizations.  He was a Fellow of the American Bar and Kansas Bar Foundations, President of the University of Kansas Law Society, and a member of the Board of Governors of the Kansas Bar Association. He served as Chairperson of the Kansas Client Security Fund, Chairperson of the Continuing Legal Education Committee, and in various roles for the Douglas County Legal Aid Society. He was co-founder and President of the Judge Hugh Means American Inn of Court.  Fred received numerous professional awards including Kansas Bar Association Outstanding Service Award, the Philip Lewis Medal of Distinction, the University of Kansas School of Law Distinguished Alumnus Award to name a few.

Outside of the legal arena Fred served numerous service organizations, including as Chairman of the Kansas Water Resources Board, as Secretary on the Lawrence Human Relations Commission, and in 1957 was the drafter of the Lawrence Fair Housing Ordinance. He served in leadership roles with the Lawrence Symphony, Penn House, Salvation Army, Bert Nash Mental Health Center, The Villages, Douglas County Visiting Nurses, Haskell Indian University Foundation, Bleeding Kansas National Heritage Committee, and the Lawrence Chamber of Commerce. Services will be later.

Fred met Lilian Olsson in 1960 when she was attending Kansas University on a Rotary International Fellowship and they married in Stockholm, Sweden on May 11, 1961. He and Lilian raised two children, Catherine and Stephen.

Fred believed in education and the arts. He loved museums, opera, theatre, and history.  He had a persuadable mind. He was open to new information and, if the case was made, he would reevaluate his position. Raised in the Reorganized Church of Latter-Day Saints he later became a secular humanist.  Before his judicial service he was Chairman of the Douglas County Republican Party and Chairman of Congressman Robert Ellsworth’s successful campaign.  After he retired from the Supreme Court he worked as a volunteer for the election of President Obama and on Governor Laura Kelly’s campaigns.

Fred loved to travel and visited most of the world with Lilian and his children. Fred was always active and over the years he played in several tennis and golf groups where he made many lasting friendships.  He enjoyed skiing into his 80s and was able to play tennis with his grandchildren into his 90s. Fred enjoyed nothing more than walking on his property south of Lawrence with Lilian and her dogs, often hunting for morel mushrooms, or simply watching the changing landscapes. He loved the history of Kansas and researched the path of the Oregon Trail over Blanton’s Crossing on the Wakarusa River at his property and gave talks on the history of Douglas County.

When an occasion called for more than casual attire, Fred could be found wearing his trademark bow tie and was pleased he passed on the tradition to a few of his grandsons.  A life-long learner, when his first grandchild was born, he bought a copy of Dr. Spock’s Baby and Child Care to freshen up his knowledge. He was a master of crafting engaging stories and told them with enthusiasm to his children and later his grandchildren. He genuinely enjoyed the company of others and although he outlived most of them, had a large circle of friends. He would research guests so he was ready with questions to ask about topics of interest to them to encourage a robust conversation. He had a way of conveying his genuine interest in what others had to say. Fred was a true Renaissance man.

Fred is survived by a daughter Catherine Six-Sallerson (Peter) of East Hampton, NY, and son Stephen Six (Betsy) of Lawrence, KS. He is also survived by four grandchildren, Emily, Samuel, Henry, and William Six. He was preceded in death by his parents and his sister Sally Six Hersh. He and Lilian are survived by a niece Jennifer Hersh and her daughter Addie Seideman of Brooklyn, NY, a nephew Chris Hersh (Carolyn), Middleburg, VA and his children Demmi and Karrer Hersh, a sister-in-law Gunilla Pluim, Ede, Netherlands and her children Nicole, Michiel (Martine Peper), and Babette Pluim (Michael Turner).

17 Condolences

  1. Mary Whitaker Davidson on April 27, 2024 at 6:19 pm

    My heart goes out to Catherine and Stephen and their families. You are in my thoughts and prayers.



  2. Susan Ashcraft on April 28, 2024 at 7:27 am

    Catherine and Stephen, Your dad is the most impressive person I have ever known. His obituary captures him perfectly. I am very proud to be among his tennis friends, and I’ll miss him greatly. I know you both have warm memories of both your parents, but loosing them so close must be overwhelming. My prayers are with your family today. Love, Sue Ashcraft ❤️ (Originals Tennis group)



  3. Steve and Amy Oliver on April 28, 2024 at 10:40 am

    Fred Six was a treasure! We were so lucky to be able to call him a friend, He joined our swimming group for lunch for several years and delighted us with his great, humorous stories. He was a gentleman until the end…waiting to depart until Lillian passed. I know so many people will miss him. Rest in peace, Fred
    Sincerely, Steve and Amy Oliver



  4. Jim Woods on April 28, 2024 at 8:43 pm

    Judge Six and I became aquainted when I was a KBI agent and was working several fraud cases. Judge Six represented several of the victims, and we shared information. Years later we both got called for jury duty, in Douglas County Court, In the jury assembly area, we sat to gather and wagered if we would be selected, or excused. A District Judge came into the room, and broke up seeing us sitting together. We were both excused.
    I was invited to his swearing in , for the Supreme Court.
    He was a man to be admired And was a great Jurist



  5. Sandy Praeger on April 28, 2024 at 9:02 pm

    I feel so fortunate to have had Fred as a friend and mentor. Such a kind, intelligent, thoughtful person. We are so blessed when we have someone like Fred Six in our lives.



  6. Margaret Brinckerhoff on April 29, 2024 at 7:05 am

    My thoughts and prayers. Over the 20+ years of friendship with Catherine, I have heard stories from the incredible lives of this tremendous family. The thirst for knowledge, travel, community and grace that both Fred and Lilian have given to Catherine and Stephen is apparent and will be another legacy to behold. Blessings to you all.



  7. Tracy Rhodes on April 29, 2024 at 8:02 am

    He was indeed a gentleman to the end. He will be sorely missed but leaves such a strong legacy of love, family, community, and service.

    Sending love and prayers to you all.



  8. Katie Armitage on April 29, 2024 at 9:15 am

    I am so glad to have known Fred even for a short time. He was a terrific person. Condolences to the family.
    Katie Armitage



  9. MIke Malone on April 29, 2024 at 1:10 pm

    Dear Steve, Catherine, and families,

    Fred was a brilliant and memorable lawyer, judge, and justice, but his kindness is what I will most remember.
    I am so sorry for your loss.



  10. Gene Bauer on April 29, 2024 at 7:31 pm

    Catherine and Steve…my condolences to you and your family on your father’s death. I knew him best as a fellow tennis player. he was truly one of the most exceptional people I have ever known. He was such a positive influence in the lives of so many.



  11. Paul Bahnmaier on April 30, 2024 at 1:00 pm

    Catherine and Steve and families

    Mr. Six and his wife were very supportive of Douglas County and Lecompton History We performed an reenactment

    at Blanton’s crossing for him and a group o f Oregon Trail supporters. He also spoke at the Bleeding Kansas Lecture Series. Their appreciation of
    history will be missed.



  12. Lori Farmer on May 1, 2024 at 8:07 am

    Betsy and family. So sorry to hear about Fred’s passing. I’ll keep your family in my prayers.



  13. David Allan Ambler on May 1, 2024 at 2:31 pm

    Our community is diminished in the loss of Fred and Lilian Six. They both contributed so much to the quality of life in Lawrence. Fred led by example in his life, career and as a community servant. He was an outstanding jurist and one brilliant intellectual. Most importantly, he was a kind, gentle and caring friend to all who knew him and a model citizen to all.



  14. Peter Whitenight on May 2, 2024 at 9:42 am

    Dear Steve and Catherine, We are sorry to read of the passing of your wonderful parents. We frequently would see them briskly walking through the Baker wetlands trails. Warm greetings would be exchanged. Great couple. Our blessings to you all. Peter and Joanie Whitenight.



  15. John and Patricia Solbach on May 3, 2024 at 1:19 pm

    I had one case with Fred before he was on the Court of Appeals and then later on the Kansas Supreme Court.

    When I was in an accident 11 years ago and in the hospital or skilled nursing for 99 days, Fred sent me a get-well card. I later ran across him at the Lied Center. I thanked him for sending that card. Fred served as an officer in the Marine Corps and I was an enlisted man in the marines. He put his hand on my shoulder and said, “Semper fi goes a long way.”

    Best wishes to the family. Fred was a consummate gentleman to be sure.



  16. Jerry Nossaman on May 5, 2024 at 10:16 am

    Fred and Lillian have meant so much to our city, university, and state. We are much better because of their presence.



  17. LaNeece Jardon on May 6, 2024 at 5:06 pm

    How we will miss taking you to your appointments, and how I will miss hearing your messages. Rest high on the mountain with your beautiful wife, watch down on the rest of us.
    LaNeece and the transportation team.



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