Idessa Riley

 Idessa Isabell Riley, 87 of Lawrence, passed away on January 5, 2013 at Lawrence Memorial Hospital.

She was born on April 22, 1925 in Topeka, KS to James and Margaret (Hockett) DeMoss and spent her childhood in Fort Scott, KS.

She was married to Isaac K. Riley, Jr. for over 50 years.  Preceding her in death was her husband Isaac; sister, Aurora Logan; four brothers, Roland DeMoss, George DeMoss, Ralph DeMoss and Cornelius Aldridge.

Idessa graduated from the Topeka School of Public Nursing with a LPN degree in 1960; in 1970 she received her Associates Degree in Nursing from Butler County Community College and in 1981 obtained her Bachelor of Science Degree in Psychology from Baker University.  

Idessa was a longtime Nursing Supervisor at Lawrence Memorial Hospital.  

She was a member of Ninth Street Missionary Baptist Church and also volunteered with Meals on Wheels.  

Survivors include two sons, Dennis D. Riley and Douglas I. Riley (Alfreda), both of Lawrence; two daughters, Donita P. Riley, Los Angeles, CA and Kimberly R. Washington (Vindell), Baton Rouge, LA; four sisters, Gladys Rennels, Leona Mullins, Alta Cummings and Hazel Moore; ten Grandchildren, Laurie Logan, Monica Barfield, Adrian Riley, Dustin Riley, Aphton Riley, Kendall Riley, Kristine Karvonen, Kayla Karvonen, Taylor Washington and Riley Washington; five Great-Grandchildren, Kaylee Riley,  Ashlyn-Jordyn Barfield, Isaiah Logan, Treye Logan and Dustin Riley, Jr.; nieces, nephews, cousins and faithful friends.

The family will greet family and friends on Friday, January 11, 2013 from 6-7:30 p.m. at the Mortuary.

Funeral services will be held 10:30 a.m. Saturday, January 12, 2013 at Warren-McElwain Mortuary.  Interment will follow at Oak Hill Cemetery
 

36 Condolences

  1. Julie Black on January 7, 2013 at 10:02 am

    So very sorry for your loss.



  2. Teri Wright (Scott) on January 7, 2013 at 11:27 am

    To: Donita Riley and Family: Very sorry to hear about your loss, my thoughts and prayers are w/the family..Be strong!

    Love Teri, Kenny, Brianna and Whitney (The Wright’s)



  3. Andrea Groenhagen on January 7, 2013 at 12:59 pm

    To: Doug,Freda, and Aphton and family: my condolences and may Idessa rest in peace. I am very fortunate to have known her and worked with her as nursing supervisor staffing us for so many many years. She had the sweetest personality and voice.

    Andrea Groenhagen



  4. Carolyn Calhoun on January 7, 2013 at 3:27 pm

    To the Family: I am so sorry for your loss. The death of a loved one is never an easy matter for any of us to cope with, but we do have the assurance of our Heavenly Father that he will comfort us in all our tribulations. (Psalms 55:22) Death was never a part of the Creator’s purpose for mankind, so, he has furnished a guarantee by means of his Son, Christ Jesus, that we will see our loved ones again. (Acts 24:15; John 5:28)I pray that you may draw comfort from these words.



  5. Cheryl A. Thomas (Johnson) on January 8, 2013 at 11:27 am

    Nothing will never replace the loss of your Mother. Aunt Idessa was there for me last year when I lost my Mother.(Betty) Just remember the good times and take it one day at a time. I’m there if you need me. My prayers are with you at this time of sorrow.



  6. Kathy Wright on January 8, 2013 at 2:17 pm

    Words cannot express the sorry I feel at your loss . My heart aches for you



  7. Harry B. and Charlene Jackman Smith on January 8, 2013 at 7:22 pm

    Doug, Freda and family My condolences to the family. God has picked an angel to enter heaven. Our prayers are with you. With love.



  8. Howard Lesner on January 8, 2013 at 8:43 pm

    My condolences to Donita and the entire family. May your mother’s memory be a blessing.



  9. Stephanie Shryock on January 8, 2013 at 9:05 pm

    My condolences to Donita and the entire family. My thoughts and prayers are with you.



  10. Jorge Jr. Garcia on January 9, 2013 at 9:33 am

    I am very sorry for your lose Donita. You and your family are in my prayers.Much love.



  11. Jorge Garcia on January 9, 2013 at 9:35 am

    My condolences to Donita and the entire family. Be strong, my prayers and thoughts are with you.



  12. Penny Dain on January 9, 2013 at 9:52 am

    My condolences to Donita and her family, my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time. Remember you are loved.



  13. Ellie Herscher on January 9, 2013 at 10:29 am

    Your mother sounds like a woman ahead of her time. Now I see where you get your strength and ability to deal so well with others. I send my prayers to you at this time of great loss. May memories of your mother give you strength to cope with this life changing event.



  14. Rabbi Jason Fruithandler on January 9, 2013 at 10:31 am

    May you be comforted amongst all those who mourn. We are thinking about you.



  15. Judy Begin on January 9, 2013 at 10:50 am

    I am very sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you.



  16. Laura Stine on January 9, 2013 at 11:01 am

    My condolences go out to Donita and the Riley family. You will stay in my prayers during your time of loss.



  17. Laura Dobbs on January 9, 2013 at 11:46 am

    Donita,my deepest condolences for the loss of your dear mom. She sounds like a woman of strength, character and compassion, and I know she blessed your life every single day with her love. You and your family are in my prayers.



  18. Beth Ida Stern on January 9, 2013 at 11:46 am

    My warmest thoughts and prayers are with your family.



  19. Laura Stine on January 9, 2013 at 11:50 am

    My condolences go out to Donita and the Riley family. You will stay in my prayers during your time of loss.



  20. Faye Wachs on January 9, 2013 at 12:40 pm

    I wish to extend my heartfelt condolences to Donita Riley and family. I pray for your Mother’s soul to rest in peace and you to gain strength from her memory. You are in my thoughts. Much love to you and your entire family.



  21. danielle kassin on January 9, 2013 at 1:02 pm

    Donita, I wanted to let you know that we are thinking of you and your family and sending our condelences.
    danielle



  22. Rabbi Wolpe on January 9, 2013 at 1:14 pm

    Our thoughts and prayers are with you, Donita, and your family. May God comfort you in your grief and may you find beauty in the legacy of your mother’s life.



  23. Pastor Don Williams on January 9, 2013 at 1:18 pm

    Donita Riley and Family: The Gathering Place Church in Los Angeles will continue to lift you up in our prayers. If there is anything you need from me, please do not hesistate to ask. We send our sincerest condolences.

    Pastor Don



  24. Rebecca Begin on January 9, 2013 at 1:19 pm

    “The angels are always near to those who are grieving, to whisper to them that their loved ones are safe in the hand of God.” ~Eileen Elias Freeman

    I am very sorry for your great loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you.



  25. Faye Wachs on January 9, 2013 at 4:30 pm

    I wish to extend my heartfelt condolences to Donita Riley and family. I pray for your Mother’s soul to rest in peace and you to gain strength from her memory. You are in my thoughts. Much love to you and your entire family.



  26. Laudrell Tilmon on January 9, 2013 at 6:06 pm

    Donita, I am sorry to hear of your mother’s passing. I understand she was an extraordinary woman. God Bless.



  27. Catherine Gladney(Tolbert) on January 9, 2013 at 7:37 pm

    Doug,Dennis,kim.and Donita You are in my prayers and have my heartfelt sympathy. Aunt Idessa has been there for me since I hit the telephone poll on the back of a bike to telling me which surgeon i should use. She was my inspiration to continue school, we were truly bless to have her in our lives and im gong to miss her dearly. If u need me call and remember the good times it helps. love u all



  28. Lisa Pompan on January 9, 2013 at 10:55 pm

    Dear Donita,
    Please know that you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers at this sad time. Although I did not know your mother, it certainly sounds as if you inherited much of your endless strength and smarts from her. I am so sorry for your loss. yours truly, Lisa P.



  29. Pat Parker on January 10, 2013 at 4:58 pm

    To Donita and family, I worked with Idessa for many years. She was a blessing to every single one of us and I missed her when she retired. The world was blessed by her presence, and may heaven be blessed by her spirit.
    Pat and Marilyn Parker



  30. Barbara Goelman on January 10, 2013 at 6:23 pm

    Donita & Family,
    May the wonderful memories of your mother,help you through this difficult time.



  31. Steve & Monica Gutierrez on January 10, 2013 at 6:41 pm

    We are saddened by your loss and the loss of a true friend and mentor! Our prayers are with you.



  32. Easter Bond on January 10, 2013 at 6:51 pm

    Doug, Freda, Aphton, Kendall and family..my thoughts and prayers are with you.



  33. Easter Bond on January 10, 2013 at 6:52 pm

    Doug, Freda, Aphton, Kendall and family..my thoughts and prayers are with you.



  34. Teresa Clounch on January 10, 2013 at 7:01 pm

    It was in 2000 when I found out I had more cousins in Lawrence, Kansas. It is during these times we put our trust in God and help our family members through such difficult times. Please know that you are all in my prayers. Doug, Freda, Aphton and Alta, let me know if I can do anything.

    God Bless,
    Naomi, Eugene, Teresa and Gena Clounch/Paul and Rodney Graham



  35. Renee Holl on January 13, 2013 at 9:25 am

    My condolences at your loss. I am very fortunate to have known Idessa and worked with her for many years. Her smile and friendship will be remembered. My your memories of her comfort you all.



  36. Jim Quigley on November 27, 2013 at 10:22 pm

    Please also accept my condolences. I am wondering if any of the family can tell me if she was any relation to Alfreda (“Alfie”) DeMoss, formerly of Detroit, Michigan. I am an old friend and would love to get in touch. Thank you.



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